Attraction - how to do it correctly

Much has been written about and spoken about the laws of so-called attraction. The recent book "The Secret" has allowed many people to acquire some ways of attracting and initiating things into their lives. However, some of this thinking is slightly flawed and I would like to put the record straight on a few things. Firstly if you try to attract something into your life that is not actually aligned with who you really are as a person you will not attract it. It has to be aligned with your higher self so to speak and if it does not fit your values system it will just be attractive to your ego only and then you will not attract it efficiently or effectively at all. The other misconception is the issue of whether you are ready to receive a specific item or thing. Some things some people just aren't spiritually ready for, it could be too early in their spiritual development. And thirdly most people do not get clear about the things they attempt to attract. Below is a good rule of thumb:

You will only attract something into your life to the extent that you are completely clear about it in your mind with no doubts or negative thoughts standing in the way or you will simply sabotage yourself.

What exactly does the above mean: Lets examine this more closely

Well the first step you take is always to identify what you do want but as you think about it or write it down in your goals journal you secretly harbour some doubts that you can attract or attain it. So the answer is to get clear on these doubts or you will just sabotage yourself. If one part of you is wanting to attract something specific and another part is disbelieving then you will create internal conflict and universal law will not know what to do because of this conflict. We need to examine methods then that can get us clear about these doubts. In the change section of this website are some simple methods of becoming clear but by far the easiest is the emotional releasing technique or the tapping exercise. If you run these through all the doubts or disbelkeif you have you will find attaining much easier.

How will you know if you are clear? If you answer something negative then you aren't clear. However, if you say an honest (and with conviction), "I know it's on its way to me now!" then you are pretty darned clear on it .

Please remember that when you set your mind to attract something it must be very specific. You can't state that you just want more money or you'll just find ten cents in the road, big deal!. You must state and write down your intention of attracting, say, an extra $500 per week on top of what you already earn. It must be a very precise description also.

So lets recap

Step 1. Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want..

Step 2. Make sure that what you wish to attract is precise and specific and stated in the 'present tense' only.

Step 3. Get clear about whatever it is you want. Make sure that you have removed all traces of doubt or uncertainty from your desires.

Step 4. Visualize the thing or goal that you want and make sure that as you see it you also feel the feelings that are associated with it, the good feelings I mean.

Step 5. Once you have followed the above steps do not be too attached to the outcome. By all means visualize the goal a few times a week but do not overly dwell on it to the extent that you become too attached. The universal law states that non-attachment is vital to attracting things. I know this sounds like a contradiction in terms but I'm only saying that you don't become overly concerned about it. Just do the stuff you need to do and then get out of the way and let universal law do it's thing.

Good luck